It wasn't till last night that I was reminded that I should set out to finish everything that I start. And that perhaps, abandonment could become a very dangerous habit if cultivated over time.
Perhaps we abandon some work because of uncertainties and self-doubt. Most recently, I've been plagued by the latter.
When I got home from the office, I met Dad in the living room and we ended up having a pretty deep conversation. Then something very rare happened, he shared with me an insight about myself that I have never heard anyone tell me before in my entire life.
"No, I am not afraid that my son cannot work hard. I believe that he can and will work very hard when he puts his mind to it. But, I am afraid when he is not sure."
Perhaps being my Father, he always knew this but never told me verbally. He's the sort of guy who would seldom commend you for doing well, but would destroy you if you're doing badly. Perhaps lately there have been many uncertainties that need my attention and I have to be sure about them before I put myself to work again.
Lately, few things have been able to move me and it's been awhile since a statement resonated so strongly within.
It seems it was as big a compliment as it was a word of caution, and in that, it has become the perfect piece of advice a Father can give.




